Tulsi Gabbard: "Living aloha, living that love and respect, it doesn’t mean being a pacifist or rolling over when our ideas are challenged or when our freedoms are under attack, actually it’s the exact opposite"
As an appellate advocate I like to highlight good rhetoric, and I was very much impressed by the speech given by our Director of National Intelligence, Tulsi Gabbard, a veteran and former member of the Democrat Party, at the Prayer Vigil for Free Speech martyr Charlie Kirk.
Most moving was her explanation of the true meaning of "Aloha:"
Aloha. In the book of Corinthians, Paul said, “Therefore we are always of good courage and know that while we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord.” We are of good courage, I say, and prefer to rather be absent from the body and be home with the Lord.
Ultimately, for every one of us, the time that we have in this world is temporary. Our time will come, sooner or later, and so the critical question that we have for ourselves is whatever time we have, what are we doing with it? How are we making the most of every day that we have? And Charlie Kirk, every single day, carried out his mission. Motivated by his faith in Jesus Christ, and his unwavering dedication to defending our God-given freedoms enshrined in our Constitution and Bill of Rights. Because of his commitments and dedication, his impact, here and around the world is profound. And it is a beautiful thing to see it playing out now.
Probably like many of you, I had the privilege of joining Charlie at some of his different campus visits and, it was truly something to behold. Because he did things that no one else would do. As I sat with him in the very first time, huge crowd, thousands and thousands of, yes students, but faculty members and people of all different ages, and the first two or three people who had stood in line, waiting to say something to Charlie were very kind and they thanked him for his work. They praised him. They talked about how he positively impacted their lives. It was powerful to witness and to see, but Charlie wasn’t there for praise. He would call to the crowd and say, “Hey, who here disagrees with me? Come to the front of the line.” He listened, carefully, to everyone. Even when others in the crowd booed, whoever was speaking he told them to be quiet and to let this person speak, to show them respect. And he engaged in that lively debate, he encouraged it, he welcomed it, and he inspired it in others. Not belittling them, not arguing just to argue, but to have a real, sincere dialogue.
You know, I’ve said many times and, every soldier lives this fact, this truth: I may disagree with what you say but I will defend to the death for your right to say it. Charlie lived by this principle.
Charlie lived by the principle that no matter how horrible another person’s speech may be, their ideas must be defeated by better ideas. Not by resorting to violence.
You know, Charlie, was killed on September 10. On September 11, we observed the twenty-fourth anniversary of the Islamist terrorist attack on our country twenty-four years ago. Now these events have something in common. They were both carried out by those who hold onto ideologies that cannot stand up to scrutiny and challenge, so they feel that their only recourse is to commit an act of violence to silence those who oppose them, and to intimidate and terrorize others into silence. This is the definition of terrorism. We cannot allow ourselves to be terrorized into silence. We need to live Charlie Kirk’s example. The example that he set. That are captured by the words of Reverend Martin Luther King: “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” This was more than a quote from an icon in our past. To Charlie, he lived this every day, and he inspired countless people around the world to do the same.
And in the wake of this tragedy, this has been, to me, has been beautiful to see how today and, you know, Sunday football games all across the country, these teams were leading moments of silence, putting pictures of Charlie up on the big screen, having a flyover with the flags flying at half-staff to honor the impact of Charlie’s life, how he positively inspired countless people, and how it’s up to us to continue Charlie’s legacy. It’s time for us, every day in we engage with others, to choose to live aloha. Love, respect.
You know, from my home state of Hawaii the reason why we greet each other with the word ‘aloha’ is because of its deeply spiritual meaning. It doesn’t actually mean hello or goodbye. We greet each other with aloha because what we are really saying when we say aloha is I see you as a child of God and I respect you as such. It is to recognize that God is all-powerful, and God’s love is all-powerful. Love is not weak. Respect for others is not weak. There is nothing more powerful than love. Living aloha, living that love and respect, it doesn’t mean being a pacifist or rolling over when our ideas are challenged or when our freedoms are under attack, actually it’s the exact opposite. It means standing up, fueled by love to defeat hate, to defeat that evil and that darkness, and to speak the truth and defend our fundamental freedoms that are granted to us by God. Charlie lived this.
Charlie embodied this, and Charlie changed hearts and minds of countless people around the world because he made a conscious choice every day to choose love. I had a friend of mine who sent me a text the day after Charlie was killed, really distraught, and she said, “What do we do now? I know the answer should be love, the answer should be peace, but Charlie tried that. And it didn’t work.” And my response to her was, “No, it did work. Powerfully.”
And that’s why they killed him. We look at the movement that Charlie inspired around the world. Love, truth, freedom, turning to God in good times and hard times, not asking what God what he will do for us, but as Charlie said, “I am far more interested in what God wants from me than what I want from God.” He said, “My prayer is very simple. God, use me for your will.”
If only ten of us committed ourselves to continuing Charlie’s mission, that alone would be incredible, to be that fertilizer and that water that will help spread this light that is inspired by God’s love. But there are far more than ten of us. There are countless people.Countless people around the world, speaking different languages, have different backgrounds, different views and opinions, who are eager to carry on Charlie’s mission. To spread this light inspired by God’s love, which will also expose those who are trying to shut down free speech, trying to silence us through violence, intimidation, and terrorism. It will expose them for who they are and the hollowness and emptiness and weakness of the ideas that they present.
So while we will miss Charlie dearly, our hearts should not be broken. Because we are confident that Charlie is at home with the Lord. Embraced in the loving arms of Jesus Christ to whom he dedicated his life. Those who are full of anger and hopelessness and hate right now, some of them protesting outside this hall today, unfortunately, they do not have the spiritual happiness that Charlie experienced. They’re empty, and this is where their anger is coming from: it is their rejection of God, their desire to be God and therefore they have made God their enemy.
I have hope today that every one of us will do our best to shine the light of God’s love in our lives and in our work, that we will treat each other with aloha, respect, and stand strong and unshakeable in the defense of our God-given rights and freedoms. May God bless you all and may God bless this great nation. Aloha.

